What is a Kindred Spirit?

It isn’t always easy to find someone that you connect with and someone that you share your energies with. When you find this, chances are that you have found someone that shares the same ideas and values with you. This can mean they see things from the same perspective that you see things and that you have so much in common.

People that you meet across your life will often develop into connections and friendships. When you meet your kindred spirit, you will see that they will understand you different than those other connections.

What is a Kindred Spirit?

A kindred spirit is someone that has the same ideas, values, and thoughts that you do. You will connect to them at a deeper level, and you will have a natural mindset that is similar. They will connect with you in different ways than other people do.

A kindred spirit will help you because they will be different. They will be both a lover and a best friend.

You will see things the same and you will understand each other better than other people understand you and this will be a strong connection.

Signs of a Kindred Spirit

If you wonder if you have met your kindred spirit, here are some signs that you might have:

They Make You Safe

This person will seem so familiar to you that you will have peace when you are around them. They will take a bad day and make it better. When you are with them, you will feel love and calm and you will always know that they have your back.

Things in Common

This will be someone that has the same likes and dislikes that you have. You will have the same kind of sense of humor, and you will get each other.

Learning About Yourself

This person will teach you about who you are. They will not want you to change or be different but to be the best that you can be.

See Things the Same

When you meet people that have the same ideas as you, that is great, but a kindred spirit goes even beyond that. They will see things so similar to you it will be like you have the same thoughts.


Your kindred spirit will share what they are feeling, and you will never have to guess. You will share the same thoughts and emotions and you will understand each other perfectly.

Instant Connection

This will be someone that you meet and as soon as you meet them, you will feel connected to them. It will feel like you have known them your whole life and you are very familiar with them.


Your kindred spirit will love and support anything that you do. They will be there when times are hard, and you can count on them not to leave you.

Shared Instinct

When something is wrong, both you and your kindred spirit will know it. You will be able to know when you should or shouldn’t do something.


They will be a strong motivator for you. They will help you to reach your goals and your ideas. They will want you to be the best you can be.

Bringing Out the Best

They will motivate you and they will bring the best out in you. If you have something you want to do, they will be your biggest support.

Make Each Other Better

When you are together, your energies will work together so well that you will feel like you can face any challenges.

Things are Easy

The relationship or friendship ill be so easy that you will not feel like you have to fight or work hard to make things work.

You Feel Them When They Are Gone

Even when your kindred spirit has to go away from you, you will feel that they are right there with you. You will be so connected to them that they always feel there.


This isn’t just about going places together, but your friendship will be intimate, and you will have a strong bond with them.

Missing Them

You will miss this person no matter what is going on. If you have to spend the day apart, you will miss them all day and you will miss them every second you aren’t together.


Having a kindred spirit is more than having a best friend but it is a bond that is unbreakable. When you have this bond, you will be overwhelmed by all of the things that you and your kindred spirit have in common and how much of a connection you have with them.

Sarah Carson

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